i need some advice

[Grimmy]

i'm all alone.
no one likes me.
everyone hates.......
my "friends" all turned there backs at me.
i hadn't done anything to them.
my so called best friend joined there side.
i came online a few minutes ago and i saw in her personal message rude comments about me...
and i didn't do anything to her either.now i'm crieng because i'm thinking about everyone who hates me.and thats almost everyone i know.
i seriously don't know what to do.
because i dont have anyone to talk to.
i would love if any one would give any advice.....
sorry if i sounded stupid ....i'm just a stupid worthless 13 year old girl like my brother calls me :(

[Pete]

Make new friends. It does sound like they were good friends to begin with.
You are not alone U are here.
I do not hate you.
Turn your back on them
No one is worthless just under apreciated.

[Heather]

Of course your not alone, your just surrounded by idiots, to quote a famous character. The feeling will pass, and the best thing to do is focus on getting away from negative vibes and immerse yourself in somthing that makes you happy, i.e, music is a great outlet. Dont let the negative bull cloud your life, there is so much more out there to occupy your time with, Find new friends, ignore the old ones till they come to their senses, and your brother sounds older, so take it from someone who has been in that situation; they can be jerks, they say rude things, but they are usually there when you need them. Stay strong girl!!!!!! Call me a friend if you like, I promise to never hate you.

[Jen]

Let's start with this: You are neither stupid nor worthless.

I'm going to tell you what I told my own son the other day. He's ten years old, and people are making fun of him and won't be his friend because he has long hair (I live in a small country town). I told him to tell them to get over it. I also informed him that he doesn't need to change who he is just to gain friends, because if he has to change for them, they're not going to be real friends. These are not your real friends. If they will turn on you at a whim, then you don't need them darlin'.

Unfortunately, particularly in people your age, drama seems to rear it's ugly head around every corner - and the need to fit in will do strange things to people. Those who turned on you did so because of their own insecurity and desire to fit in. Also, as opposed to popular belief, drama is not life. I erased drama from my life, by cutting ties to the people who cause it. I tell people I live in a "drama free zone". I don't allow them to call me and tell me what "so and so" did to "so and so", or give me a bunch of gossip. I don't care. I have my own stuff going on - and sweetie, so do you. Get rid of the drama. And, if any of them decided to apologize and admit they were wrong, don't be too hard on them (if they mean it). I would tell them it will take you a while to trust them again. Remember that we all make mistakes. As much as we try to do the right thing, wrong decisions are still a part of life. Life is the ultimate learning experience.

I know it seems like the whole world is coming down on you right now, and you can't see how you are going to get past it. - but believe me when I say, there will come a time in your life when none of the stupid and petty stuff that went on in school will matter. Trust me.

Hang in there doll.

~Jen

[BDawg509]

First things first..In my experience, people like your so called "friends" and your brother are simply lashing out because of there own inadequacies, fears, and lack of self esteem. It makes them feel better about themselves by making other people feel bad about themselves. By reaching out to others for assistance, you have already proven that you are way ahead of them in both intelligence and social interaction..two things I personally feel may be the most important factors in becoming a complete and ultimatley happy human being! :) "In order to have good friends, you must BE a good friend" Keep in mind hun that these people will most likely grow old being sad, unhappy and alone if they do not change there way of interacting with others. You on the other hand have limitless potential based soley on your ability to reach out to others for help in these kind of issues. Everyone doesn't hate you, I don't. I feel that 98 percent of everyone on this planet are stupid fuckin idiots, my job is to weed thru the idiots and find the 2 percent of people that I need to be around.. I hope that helps a little, You can add me as a friend .. It would be an honor! Also try and remember that how you feel about yourself is usually how others will treat you. If you dont like yourself ..how can anyone else like you? Get out there and find YOUR two percent;)

[Scott]

well solly to go all DR PHIL on you tell your brother to blow it out his arse, you dunno how important a sibling is till ya lose em.... but meh i wouldn worry about what your mates are up too.... just ignore em.

[Enemy of god]

You're 13 it will get better. Whether it's tommorrow or 2 days from now or next week. I grew up with 2 older sisters who made it their job to let me now how worthless I was on daily basis. The only advice I can give you is to find some peace inside your head. I dove in to music and books when I felt completely alone. Books and music can take your mind to a place where brothers. sisters, moms, dads and ever changing friends can't touch you. Create your own space and smile whether you feel like it or not. Just force yourself to smile, you'll find you'll feel better just by doing so. Good luck I hope this helps.

[Trent Chess]

you are not just some stupid worthless girl, you are your own person. if the world cannot see and respect you for who are then the world needs to stop and look a little closer to what they are missing. if you ever do feel that there is no one there to talk to then you should go somewhere quiet and talk to God. i have come to find that in the silence there comes revelations and these revelations lead to poetry, and this poetry truly is who you are.

[Grimmy]

thanks you guys for the advice

thank you!

and i'm not gonna care about those people anymore...
especialy my brother....

because the only thing he does is waste my time with his comments

[Scott]

well just make sure you do care about the important ppl in your life and dont worry about your bro solly, he will come around

[Sophia Snapped]

Love, I've been here before...twice. It's not easy. I did nothing to them but they still turned on me.
As hard as it is, you have to ditch them. It's easier to say than do, but there's nothing for it. They may decide they're over it and be friendly again, but if they do this again after that you need to drop them. I don't even want to know how many times I let those "friends" regain my trust. Find new people to hang out with, love, it's much healthier than pining for your old friends.
If you need to talk about anything drop me a line, I'm happy to talk.
Sophia xx

[Ryan]

Hey, i know how u feel. try not 2 let other ppl get 2 u. every1 has their own opinions. my parents & the whole 3 friends i have r always tellin me 2 cut my dreads off & b all normal like every1 else but they dont understand i just have 2 b myself.
so u should b urself & learn from their mistakes ;)

[Ty Zane]

Your not worthless and your not alone,sometimes in life we have to go it our own even if that means not having many friends,try to meet some new friends and focus on the stuff that makes you happy and things will get better.