i need some advice

i'm all alone.
no one likes me.
everyone hates.......
my "friends" all turned there backs at me.
i hadn't done anything to them.
my so called best friend joined there side.
i came online a few minutes ago and i saw in her personal message rude comments about me...
and i didn't do anything to her either.now i'm crieng because i'm thinking about everyone who hates me.and thats almost everyone i know.
i seriously don't know what to do.
because i dont have anyone to talk to.
i would love if any one would give any advice.....
sorry if i sounded stupid ....i'm just a stupid worthless 13 year old girl like my brother calls me :(

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Permalink Reply by Chiyo_Suzaku on September 18, 2008 at 3:33pm: hey, ur not worthless. And your brother will realize that one day
for now, just make new friends.
I know its not easy
i started middle school with no one
everyone around me had friends and fit in somewhere, and i've always been the one that didn't really have a place.
and those people, they're not friends
and if thats the kind of person your ex-best friend is, you deserve better anyhow.
I can't tell you how to make friends, 'cause its not like math. There's no formula for finding people you can get along with.
But if you want, I'll be your friend^^; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by lokifalcon on September 27, 2008 at 7:55pm: If you are a worthless 13 yr old girl then I am a worthless 45 yr old man. I have a son that is now 18 and he has gone through simlar problems. We all make mistakes, if I didn't have 45 yrs of mistakes I probably wouldn't be replying to you. There are people out there that will like you for who you are. They are just harder to find. I know when your 13 you can feel trapped. But you will have the best years ahead of you. You don't have to do what others want you to do. You don't have to be the person that others want you to be. Just be honest to yourself and do something. Anything. Sitting around depressed is not good. Find an outlet for your passions, your anger. And remember your never alone.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by maire on October 1, 2008 at 6:49am: hey your not worthless listen ok your at the age were people are gona turn there backs on you
i went throught the same thing and still am they are not worth it if you need to talk message me angd ill give you my # dont let some stupid kids get you down ok
everythings gona work out in the long run; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by gothkitty on November 12, 2008 at 7:08pm: they will get it back whoever they are hanging around might just turn their backs on them. try picturing something funny and embarresting happening to them.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Chanda on November 13, 2008 at 12:10pm: Well, my 13th year was tough for me to, at school and at home.
Trust me, everything gets better. I know that may not make
you feel better right now, but it will. You do have people to
talk to, on here. This is the most wonderful, supportive
website I've ever been a part of. We'll be here to catch you
when you fall. :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Laura Rollins on November 14, 2008 at 11:51pm: I know how your feeling cause i've been there. What it took me a really long time to realise was that I was putting out a lot of negative energy. I'm not saying that is what u r doing. I don't know the specifics of your situation. I suggest doing some self analisis of how your acting in relation to your family and others at your school. Also though observe how they act when they arn't aware of you. There is probably more than just your emotions in turmoil here.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by stephen winnett on November 21, 2008 at 10:36am: hey i kno how u feel im in the same situation that u r but i also kno that it will get better if your "friends" do that shit then they aint true friends just say fuck you when someone puts u down cuz the reason they r is because inside they wanna b like u n kno they never can b; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by silverpiercing20 on November 28, 2008 at 1:19am: when i was your age i was in your same place. every single person i knew turned their backs on me and started spreading rumors and lies about me. no one spoke to me for six months.
i hated them all. but i felt more alone than anything else.
then i stopped caring. then i hated some more. then i got bigger problems and stopped caring as much.
what i can tell you is that YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS. YOU. ARE. NOT. WORTHLESS. you are absolutely and totally and completely not worthless. yes you feel like you are...but you are not. i have felt worthless for almost every moment of my life, for many reasons. but you are not worthless. if they make you feel that way, then leave them. find yourself. focus on yourself and what you want to do, and don't let yourself be about them. learn who you are and live for yourself, no one else.
you are worth the world.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Louise on December 1, 2008 at 8:18pm: Yeah...I'll just be straight with you. Girls are fucking bitches, they suck. Thats all there is to it, they just SUCK. I had that same shit happen to me when I was in highschool. You know where there are now? They've all got kids, no education, no job, and no man. Me? I'm in college still, I am going to be married this summer, and I could give a flying fuck less about them! Girls are very caddy creatures. They can act very inhumane. Trust me, Ive had my hair lit on fire, my old friends used to tell me to kill myself, blah blah blah....DUMB. FUCK THEM. Move on. Even if you don't find any friends, which there is someone for everyone, just keep thinking about how retarded they are. Keep your head up and don't take shit from nobody.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Justin on December 25, 2008 at 6:33am: Your so called friends are just people stuck in the box of immaturity.
You need to find real people. It ain't easy. It takes time, and looking in the right places.
Some people just get lucky.
Fuck em.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Austin on December 26, 2008 at 4:20am: i can tell you right now, when you're 16, you'll be driving, you'll have a whole new group of friends. These people are gonna be stupid people you look back on and think, "hahaha I can't believe i was actually friends with them."

I hate to be so generic, but give it time,
And don't let them get to you.
Even if what they say hurts, just laugh a little bit and say, "psh, whatever"
If you say it out loud, maybe you'll see that in the long run, these stupid kids can't hurt you.
I don't know you, but the fact that you're hurt by their words show that you're better than the stupid gossip circle they've got going on.

Fuck 'em.
Find new friends.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by jayme on December 26, 2008 at 5:21pm: well first off same thing happen to me had a group of about 10 best friends we were always together every day an I was with one of them for 2 years we had a really bad break up, an every one droped me like i was nothing. they all quit calling texting an just cheated me like shit for no reason, a few months went by of me sitting at home in my room alone just feeling sorry for myself. I got sick of it i didnt want to be sad anymore so i started going out more. talking to random people an ta duh new friends wasnt easy but i got out of the feel sorrry for myself RUT an you can to. the way I see it if they say their your friend an then leave you in the dirt Then FUCK UM they dont deserve to have you. thats my advice hope it does something for you; ▶ Reply to This