DAMN IT??>>> UNTIL WHEN???

[Jonathan]

Hey...i feel like i have some problem with talking to girls.... is that completely screwed up??

[Jonathan]

i am always a "friend".....oh how i fucking abhore this word..........
i mean, i like being a friend, "kind-hearted" they call me....that's good, but in fact, i need something more.....

[li_666]

Well.......i had a time in my life that my best friend was in love with me and i just could look at me like my best friend. That thing that you feel it's super normal. But do not be afraid....really....talking is the best way to achive what we want.

[Five Ft 0f Concrete]

talk to girls you arent already friends with... ask a girl you arent friends with on a date... dont let it cross the friends line :)

[Lindsey]

Girls respect and adore boys with self confidence. It makes the game that much more thrilling. What is there to be afraid of? We're people too.

[Samantha N.]

whats goin on?

[Jason]

Hey Dude I know the feeling..I am almost constantly stuck in friend Mode. Its best to try to spark a relationship with someone your not already friends with its not worth screwing up any friendship.

[Woodchopper]

It is, but it cant be as bad as my problem. When I m in the oppertunity I flirt with a girl and then they are heterosexual I think.

[phantomwolf]

i hear you, it sucks being the "friend," but don't put that down, it's still a wonderful quality to have, and with the right person it will be appreciated. Always remember that it's probably hard for the other person too, and they're waiting for you to say the right words that will open the door. Don't be afraid.

[XtIna]

Dont be afraid to take chances.

[VictoriaCross]

That's pretty normal. Most people are afraid of rejection and this can stop them from taking risks and talking to members of the opposite sex. But think about it this way: if you DO talk to a girl, yeah sure she can reject you, but there's still a chance that she can respond well and you can take it further. However, if you DON'T talk to a girl, you're GUARANTEED to have absolutely no success with her. So what seems like a better option?

[Alice]

It's not screwed up, you just need a boost of confidence. I had the same problem with talking to guys. Just be yourself and be open around them and you'll eventually find it easier to do.

[Think13]

The key is to not over pursue a girl when you approach them. I always made sure to not start a conversation with the wrong intentions hovering around in my head. It may sound like I have been domesticated from being with the same girl for 4 years now but, girls deserve to be approached and talked to like their more then just a body to lust after. Nobody wants to feel they are having to spend time analyzing the person in question to see if they are being honest and sincere in what they're saying. Just talking to them like you don't want anything more then to be her friend. I know it may seem rather drag when being single, but let me tell you from my own experience. Having good female friends are some of the best friends you can ever have.Just stay confident and start off small.