the real life issues.. any advice

[chriss horelle]

ok so i have been told that i need to just forget my past problems and just be happy. this is hard for me to do though because my brain will continue to think about these old things and the people around me just dont get it... how can i be happy and fix myself when i dont even know where to start

[Crazed Hermit]

Seriously dude what I did was a talked to a shrink. It helped amazingly. Problems like these are always very complicated and there's no shame in needing help with them, so go get it.

[chriss horelle]

i would do that if my refuitable father believed that i have problems. its like he wears rose colored galsses and he believs there gonna drug me for these issues that i supposedly have.... i feel lost

[Melissa]

these things that have happened are important. regardless of how good or bad they may have been, they are part of the patchwork of your egsistance. You have to have the will power not to dwell on specific things though, so you have complete control over your life, your spirit walk. This is yours, and nothing anyone else has done to you will determine the outcome, dont let anyone take that from you. Hold your head up high, be who you were meant to be, dont let other people and the things they have done be the determining factor. Be strong, work through it....and file that shit. When you need the extra strength sometimes, use it as reference, help other people who might have gone through the same thing, and rise above. Because its your choice. Blessings always.